We have so much love to give but struggle to love ourselves. We’re harder on ourself than on everybody else combined.
Because we’ve been trained that way by people who’ve looked at us with disappointment because we didn’t make their world complete.
People have trained us: if you behave in this way I will love you.. so we worked desperately to be loveable instead of spending that same intensity being in alignment with our authenticity.
These people have been looking to connect to their inner divinity through you - looking for the love they’re searching for inside you, rather than looking to love.
So the trick to undo-ing all this is to choose to love rather than to search for love. Find an object, anything and love it: a pet, your bed at night, a campfire, a cup of coffee. As we love rather than looking for love - we will step back into alignment with our authenticity which IS love.