Everyone has their own energy system. As empaths is essential that we monitor any leaks in that energy system. No one needs to give energy away to another because we each have our own.
There’s an energy transference happening when Zaid “is scared in the shower and requires you there” and when “Mia gets upset over the phone and clings on”
This “clinging” is the children desperately feeding off your energy and it tells me that they feel theirs is somehow bleeding out.. that they don’t have enough energy to be as powerful as they need.
This can happen for a number of reasons but the solutions are quite simple.
Goal: we need to train each of them to realise their own individual power so they turn to themselves when they’re in need rather than clinging to you and energetically feeding off you.
Metaphor: each child is alone in their own boat amidst a stormy ocean. They are scared their boat is going to capsize. So what they’re currently doing is all trying to jump into your boat where you have control and they feel safe. What we need to do is work them very slowly into getting comfortable with their own sense of power, their own boats.
Method: you’ve been trying to calm the water around them to help them realise they’re safe but their fears have been progressively driving them more and more panicky. So they aren’t seeing the peaceful life you’re building around them. It’s time for plan B. instead of allowing the children into your boat, it’s time to start training them to be comfortable in their own energy, comfortable that they have got themselves.
Method 2: stabilisation through lots of connections. Instead of the kids relying solely on you I think what might benefit them is connecting to you, Susan, Zoe, and I while we teach them about their own power. Like building stabilising outriggers onto the sides of their boat. (Training wheels or bowling bumper rails).
By getting them progressively more and more comfortable with their own power, we’ll be setting them free inside the calm waters you’ve already created, but that they’re unaware of as yet.
Like a child screaming that they’re gonna drown then realising the water is shallow and they can stand up and could have just stood up the entire time.
The kids are initially going to feel cut off and betrayed.. but it is essential that we break the drug, the addiction of unhealthy codependency slowly and surely and ween them off relying on someone else’s energy rather than growing their own.
We need to reach for each of those feeding tubes of theirs and show them how and where to attach them inside their own auras.
It’s essential for your wellbeing to get them connected and plugged in rather than just feeding off your energy. It’s like breast feeding-it’s time to ween them.
They are not getting enough energy from you.. so they’re panicking. Which makes them cling tighter. It’s time to plug them in to ‘source’. So they have unlimited energy.
Zaid for instance wants third eye power. Which is Mia’s silver sheen Obsidian. Currently he has blood stone for courage. I would say to him. 100% you are welcome to progress to the next stone once you’ve mastered the dragon lessons your current stone is teaching you. Once you can shower by yourself, then I can prove that you’ve been learning the lessons your stone teaches and I’m happy to get you a new stone. Each stone is a lesson to master. Each stone teaches us its power and once we’ve mastered this lesson we are free to move onto the next lesson and the next stone.
The dragons have taught me how to open third eyes. I’m happy to do this on Zaid later. With greater power and knowledge comes greater responsibility so what I want to see from Zaid before I teach him more and more levels is that he’s putting into practise the lessons from this level. He needs to master the current lesson to prove to me he’s ready for the next.
So his current mission is to master dragon courage. If the dragons agree that he’s connecting well to dragon energy, then they’ll open his third eye, if not, they simply won’t come to the party until he’s decided to play ball with them. These are their lessons and their powers to bestow.
Mia’s energy is gryffon, peacock energy. She’s flying over everything like a bird and watching all. She’s a powerful one too. She can handle her own problems but tends to try and handle her own problems instead of share them and feel like the team is there to help her.
Bedtime routine is going to help. Getting them out of the habit of “I just need a snack, injures need a drink of water... etc” Zaid is really good at bedtime I noticed. He lies down and he goes to sleep. Mia is good at self soothing. Aliyah wants lots of ways to keep awake.